Wednesday, December 25, 2013
Mother Makes Children Pay Rent To See Their Father
My children's mother wants to rent our children to me. Only they are the ones that are paying for it.
Thomas J. Nixon Transfered to the Courthouse in Alameda
Thomas J. Nixon has been transfered to The George E. McDonald Hall of Justice
2233 Shore Line Dr, Alameda, California
Thursday, September 12, 2013
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Tuesday, August 13, 2013
Tortious Interference of Visitation
Monday, August 12, 2013
Sunday, August 11, 2013
Friday, August 9, 2013
Robin Silverman
Do not agree to any mediation with this. It is a man hater and will coerse you by manipulation so Thomas Nixon can do nothing as usual.
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
Family Law Commissioners and Judges Do Not Know What is Best
Every family is different. Sure most have the same intentions to be model citizens raise little Johnny or Susie and do the rite thing. But personalities egos and behaviors can change all this.
Just as case that is seen in Family Court is different, they can't possibly know what is best for Johnny or Susie when they don't even care where they live or who they live with.
Saturday, August 3, 2013
Create A Website for your Child/Children
Wednesday, July 31, 2013
The Lonely Father
Spies
A "custodial" mother interferes with a bonding time with the father by texting the child, and the child texting back.
Monday, July 22, 2013
Friday, July 19, 2013
Deception - What They Don't Know, Will and Is Hurting Them For A Long Time To Come
There are many disturbances that make up Parent Child Alienation.
One of them is the parent who has the children as a so called
"custodial parent" is in control of the children's perception of what is right, or really going on as far as when they are actually supposed to see their other parent.
So if the parent who is responsible for providing access, such as transportaion to the other parent for court ordered visitation rights, is demonstrating an evil act if they are not being honest qith their children makung them unaware of the plan or schedual according to the law.
Saturday, July 13, 2013
Sunday, June 9, 2013
Misplaced Trust
Psychoanalysis would highlight the accompanying paradox that 'the child, it should be remembered, always defends the bad parent more ferociously than the good'. [6] The paradox may help account for what have been called 'trauma bonds...the misplaced loyalties found in exploitive cults, incest families, or hostage and kidnapping situations, or codependents who live with alcoholics, compulsive gamblers or sex addicts'. [7]
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Carl Cottee Jr. Has Been Accused Of Beating His Girlfriend’s 4-Year-Old To Death
Carl Cottee Jr. Has Been Accused Of Beating His Girlfriend’s 4-Year-Old To Death May 6, 2013 at 9:20 am by Morbid Carl Cottee Jr. Has Been Accused Of Beating His Girlfriends 4 Year Old To DeathNewport News, VA - Carl Cottee Jr., 23, has been charged with the murder of his girlfriend’s 4-year-old daughter, according to police. Police were called to a home where Cottee had been caring for Madyson Van Cleave Hook while her mother was out. There they found the girl in a bedroom not breathing and showing signs of trauma to her body, according to police spokesperson Holly McPherson. The child was taken to a local hospital where she was pronounced dead from blunt head trauma. Madyson’s grandmother was initially told the girl’s death was an accident, and that Madyson got dizzy after taking a bath, passed out and then hit her head. But that does not explain the bruises and multiple skull fractures the family would later learn the girl had suffered. ”It’s horrible I just can’t imagine her going through that pain,” her grandmother said. “I can hear her saying, ‘I love my Nan Nan.’” Want to hear something infuriating? Madyson’s grandmother also said there was suspicion the girl was being abused after Madyson complained of being locked in a dresser and being left alone. Two weeks ago, Child Protective Services was called in to investigate for signs of abuse in the home, but nothing came of that investigation. Carl Cottee Jr. was arrested and has been charged with murder, child neglect and cruelty and injuries to a child. He is currently residing in the Newport News City Jail. A candlelight vigil was held for Madyson Sunday night where dozens attended and lit candles. Madyson’s father, Shane Van Cleave, says he vows to keep telling his first born’s story while her family says Madyson’s death shows the importance of speaking up and speaking out about child abuse. Read more: http://www.dreamindemon.com/2013/05/06/carl-cottee-jr-accused-beating-girlfriends-4yearold-death/#ixzz2TL6l5AMH Under Creative Commons License: Attribution Follow us: @dreamindemon on Twitter | thedreamindemon on Facebook
Saturday, April 13, 2013
Child suffering from extreme emotional damage
Termination of Parental Rights: California
Failure of Reasonable Efforts
Thursday, April 11, 2013
Sunday, March 31, 2013
Saturday, March 30, 2013
Placed With The Wrong Parent
Custodial arrangement that is detrimental to their well-being.
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Nixon, Thomas J.
Caroline Samiezade-Yazd on January 8, 2012 at 6:16 pm This is what is happening to me. I have a reputable doctor who has documented in writing in my medical record that my PTSD is secondary to the loss of my children. With this, I am now going to see if I can find a personal injury attorney who will file a personal injury lawsuit against Alameda County in California. My commissioner’s name is Thomas J. Nixon, if anyone else has this commissioner, and is having these problems, please contact me at ToBeFreeToBeMe@yahoo.com. Please place the word Nixon in the header, in case it goes to spam. Maybe a class action lawsuit can come of it. Thank You
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Thursday, February 14, 2013
http://www.keepingfamiliesconnected.org/blog
“There is no system ever devised by mankind that is guaranteed to rip husband and wife or father, mother and child apart so bitterly then our present Family Court System” – Judge Brian Lindsay Retired Supreme Court Judge I have been pondering what has been happening in the courts lately. I am struck by the [...]
Sunday, February 10, 2013
MALICIOUS ALIENATION
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
BPD Distortion Campaigns
One of the classic behaviors of a person suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder is the vilification campaign. The target is the person against whom the perpetrator Borderline conducts the vilification. The intent is to destroy the target’s reputation and thereby destroy the target’s relationships with family and friends, employers, co-workers, doctors, teachers, therapists, and others. The intent may even be to force the target to leave the community, put the target in prison, or even kill the target. As with so many things involving Borderlines and their typical inability to understand or respect boundaries, there really are no limits. They will use basically any means available to them to cause damage to their target, including denigration, endless disparaging remarks, fabrication, false accusations, and even teaching others (including their children!) to lie on their behalf as part of their vilification campaign.
Distortion Campaigns Not Limited to BPD Victims
People without BPD may practice vilification campaigns, also, but they are often tied to BPD or similar personality disorders, especially Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). The classic BPD book Stop Walking on Eggshells refers to these as distortion campaigns. This choice of words emphasizes that the campaign employs lies, exaggerations, fictions, partial truths, and other reality distortion techiques. As it is unusual for a Borderline engaging in a vilification campaign to not use distortions, we shall refer to these as distortion campaigns just as the authors of Stop Walking on Eggshells have done.
It’s a myth that only women have BPD. Older research suggested that about 75% of BPD cases occur in women and that about 2% of the population is affected. Newer research shows that the ratio is probably closer still, possibly nearly evenly split, and that as much as 6% of the population may suffer from it.
It can be very difficult to distinguish BPD from similar personality disorders, particular from NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) as both tend to involve a lot of emotional abuse. Many believe that males are more likely to have NPD and females BPD. Other disagree. Psychology is a very subjective science. Gender bias in therapists and researchers often makes it even more subjective.
Please don’t assume if I use a gender-specific pronoun such as “he” or “she” that I mean the statement only applies to men or women. Writing in a gender-neutral manner in English can be awkward at times because the language lacks a truly gender-neutral third person pronoun for people that could replace the use of “he” and “she”. “It” just doesn’t sound right, and repetitively using “he or she” makes for some annoying reading.
Most of what I write here about distortion campaigns applies equally to men and women suffering from BPD or NPD or even a combination of the two as. Recent research shows that BPD and NPD are often present at the same time.
Distortion Campaign Does Not Intend to Help the Target
It’s critical to differentiate between a real distortion campaign and something that may look like one but is not. For instance, Borderlines often have drug and substance abuse problems. If a family member or friend of a Borderline tries to get help for the Borderline by discussing the problems with other family members and friends, this is not a distortion campaign. It is based upon caring about the person and trying to discuss what is going wrong in order to get help. There is not intent to harm. But a Borderline may have a very hard time distinguishing the intent of helping and lack of intent to harm. Such a friend or family member may be accused by the Borderline of conducting a distortion campaign, even though this is not accurate.
Not All Borderlines Practice Distortion Campaigns
It’s important to note that not all Borderlines practice distortion campaigns. Some e
